Archive for April, 2012

Ceiling Magma!!!

Ceiling Magma, originally uploaded by scjody.

Liz & I put some holes in the walls and ceilings last Caturday as part of my renovation planning. It took Magma 6 days to figure out how to get up into the ceiling, but here he is! Meow!

A good therapist

I found this printed on a dead tree and was going to send it to a friend, but I’m posting it here mostly as a personal archive of useful information:

Here’s what you should look for in a good therapist.  Some good signs are:

  • Someone you know says this therapist has helped her with a similar problem in concrete ways.
  • The therapist offers a plan that focuses on helping you reach the goals you’ve set, and it’s clear to you how what the therapist does will help you reach your goals.
  • This therapist uses a variety of methods depending on your problem and who you are.
  • You have an ongoing sense that this therapist is more often than not helping you feel better in your life and helping your life work better.

Some bad signs are:

  • There’s no change in your life or how you feel or what you do after four sessions, or things actually get worse.
  • The therapist seems uninterested in the concrete realities of your current life.
  • The therapist is focused exclusively on ways you’ve been damaged, instead of on your needs or strengths.
  • The therapist seems to have one all-purpose theory or “answer” that explains everything.
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